Do you believe that sex is an integral part of a relationship and should never be held off until later? In these sexually charged times, should sex be the focal point of any relationship? Are you afraid that if you don't go to bed with a guy the moment he suggests it, he'll lose interest in you?
These are the beliefs and thoughts that are shared by a large number of women. It isn't hard to see why. Sex seems to be everywhere and you're the odd one out if you're not having sex that very first night with a guy.
If you're afraid a guy won't want to see you again because you don't go to bed with him right away, you should re-think your relationship with him. Is he really worth it? Do you think he'll stick around once you do have sex with him?
You need to know that there are men out there who aren't looking for sex on the first night and they are patient enough to get to know you first. They are also more worth your while.
These men are interested in talking to you and learning what you're all about. They also want to share with you who they are and want to be able to speak openly with you. During this time, sex doesn't need to be in the forefront. Chances are you'll both have it on your mind, and this will make it all the more exhilarating.
Keeping sex as a future goal rather than a starting point means you have more time and energy to concentrate of building a solid foundation. Become friends with him and encourage him to open up to you. Have fun and go on exciting dates that only flirt with the possibility of the sex that's to come. Not only will this drive him crazy about you, but you'll also be able to tell whether this is really the right guy for you.
When should you have sex? When you realize that you really care for him and you have a rather firm conviction that he cares for you. Don't simply rely on the crush you feel for him; sex will only add to the confusion of emotions.
by Tina L. Jones
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