Dating online is one the trendiest socializing in the internet nowadays. People have been into social networking that most often a link to meet new people from all over the world. And is also a dangerous ground to break relationships. If you see signs that your girlfriend is cheating online; then somehow you must examine some of her activities.
Your girlfriend seems to be spending too much time in the internet and stays up late at night. She could have several email accounts which she can use for online chatting. A simple chat can lead to something more intimate and this is one of the alarming signs that your girlfriend is cheating.
She starts to open her accounts in different social networking websites like Facebook or
Myspace. You can check the list of her added friends. There are telltale signs that can lead to your suspicion that she is cheating on you. If her added friends are mostly male but there are females too; she did on purpose to ward off obvious reasons that she is cheating. And worse, she did not invite you or add you to her social accounts.
You are denied access to her private accounts or have changed her passwords. If she is reluctant to give you the access, this is also a sign that your girlfriend is cheating.
She reacts in a panic mode when caught by surprise if she sees you coming closer to her. Watch for her immediate reactions like clicking on the mouse as she minimizes the window with the person she chats with. Surprised and blushing face is a sign that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
She starts to hang out with her friends more than the usual. Your girlfriend's cyber fling can be just nearby, she can be using her "friend" as an alibi when in fact she is actually meeting different person.
Your sexual connection decreases and she often starts up the discussion with angry reactions. She seems like she is annoyed with your presence. Even if you try to pacify things, she deafens with you and chose to leave. If you think you have encountered similar incidents, obviously these are signs that your girlfriend is cheating. It is wise that you gather evidences first before you confront your girlfriend so she cannot deny the activities that she was doing behind your back.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Monday, July 5, 2010
Love and Hatred - Two Sides of the Same Coin by Awdhesh K Singh
There is no emotion like love. Everyone wished to be loved. Voltaire said, "Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination." People even call love as God. We are always told that love alone can solve all problems.
If love is considered beautiful, hatred is considered ugly. If love is desirable, hatred must be avoided at all cost.
People consider hatred as evil and anger as a negative emotion. All opponents of love like jealousy, envy, anger are looked down upon by the puritan. The opponents of love are often compared with Satan and Devil.
Scriptures tells us that we should love not only our neighbors but also our enemies and offer our second cheek, if someone slaps us on own cheek.
In reality, love and hatred are as integrated with each other as the North Pole and South Pole of the magnets are connected with each other or as the protons and electrons are integrated with each other in an atom. They just cannot live in isolation and one is the father of the other. Kurt Tucholsky said,
"Those who hate most fervently must have once loved deeply; those who want to deny the world must have once embraced what they now set on fire."
It may look absurd but love is the cause of hatred and hatred is the cause of love. Beauty would lose its meaning if ugliness is removed from this world. You love watching the matches which are played against your enemy nations. You love deafening them as much as you hate losing from them.
Those who never hate, also never love.
You love justice because you hate injustice.
One, who has no hatred for injustice, cannot be just.
You love your country because you hate your enemy country.
If your country has no real enemy, you can't love your country.
The concept of nationalism was broken into pieces after the enmity between the European nations stopped. Now the citizens of these countries complain that they do not love their country.
Once you have destroyed the hatred, love cannot live long.
Often leaders have to invent an enemy, a fearsome and ferocious enemy so that their men get united. They create hatred towards their opponents so that their followers can unite under him.
If you have no enemies, you are good for nothing because you have never stood for anything. When you make enemies, you also make friends. Winston Churchill, one of the greatest leaders of twentieth century said,
"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life."
A wise man is therefore never afraid of the hatred. He knows that love has to be accompanied by hatred. Only those who are willing to sacrifice love are able to get rid of hatred. However, a person who lost love and hatred also loses the purpose of living.
However, good people base their emotions on love but they are also prepared to face the hatred that invariably follows love like a forgotten lover.Life is a mystery which can not be explained either by science or by scriptures.
Truth has a body and a soul which we call science and religion. Contrary to popular perception, they are not opposed to each other but complement each other like body and soul. In fact, they can not exist without each other.
If love is considered beautiful, hatred is considered ugly. If love is desirable, hatred must be avoided at all cost.
People consider hatred as evil and anger as a negative emotion. All opponents of love like jealousy, envy, anger are looked down upon by the puritan. The opponents of love are often compared with Satan and Devil.
Scriptures tells us that we should love not only our neighbors but also our enemies and offer our second cheek, if someone slaps us on own cheek.
In reality, love and hatred are as integrated with each other as the North Pole and South Pole of the magnets are connected with each other or as the protons and electrons are integrated with each other in an atom. They just cannot live in isolation and one is the father of the other. Kurt Tucholsky said,
"Those who hate most fervently must have once loved deeply; those who want to deny the world must have once embraced what they now set on fire."
It may look absurd but love is the cause of hatred and hatred is the cause of love. Beauty would lose its meaning if ugliness is removed from this world. You love watching the matches which are played against your enemy nations. You love deafening them as much as you hate losing from them.
Those who never hate, also never love.
You love justice because you hate injustice.
One, who has no hatred for injustice, cannot be just.
You love your country because you hate your enemy country.
If your country has no real enemy, you can't love your country.
The concept of nationalism was broken into pieces after the enmity between the European nations stopped. Now the citizens of these countries complain that they do not love their country.
Once you have destroyed the hatred, love cannot live long.
Often leaders have to invent an enemy, a fearsome and ferocious enemy so that their men get united. They create hatred towards their opponents so that their followers can unite under him.
If you have no enemies, you are good for nothing because you have never stood for anything. When you make enemies, you also make friends. Winston Churchill, one of the greatest leaders of twentieth century said,
"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life."
A wise man is therefore never afraid of the hatred. He knows that love has to be accompanied by hatred. Only those who are willing to sacrifice love are able to get rid of hatred. However, a person who lost love and hatred also loses the purpose of living.
However, good people base their emotions on love but they are also prepared to face the hatred that invariably follows love like a forgotten lover.Life is a mystery which can not be explained either by science or by scriptures.
Truth has a body and a soul which we call science and religion. Contrary to popular perception, they are not opposed to each other but complement each other like body and soul. In fact, they can not exist without each other.
Recognizing True Friendship by Catherine McFarlane-Noble
Presented here are eight key elements that characterize true friendship between friends. True friendship is not confined to building rapport between one person and another. We may see this one on one friendship displayed between school class mates. Year after year as the scholastic time in a person's life proceeds along its way. The bonding between friends outlasts the rigors of homework, detention, or puberty blues.
Sometimes the rapport may be between groups of people. True friendship is displayed in the bonding of members of sports teams. United by a common goal and faith in the bonds of friendship. A team steps out on the sports arena. To face together what ever comes from the opposition. Is there anything more passionate than an avid football fan for their team.
Other relationships that are characterized by true friendship is that between a person and their pet. After all, man's best friend, it is said, is a dog. For centuries animals have provided the acknowledgement of self that we all require.
Acceptance
To accept a person for who they are. Each of us is a unique individual with personal preferences. The life choices that a friend may make may not be the same as the life choices that you would make yourself. Diversity is what makes the world an interesting place.
Willingness
A willingness to listen to all your friend has to say. There may be time when you are not interested in the topic that your friend wants to discuss at length. True friends willingly listen to all each other have to say. Agreement of opinion is not necessary but respect that the other person is entitled to their opinion.
Trust
The ability to be relied upon in all circumstances. An act of betrayal can kill trust stone dead. Once trust has been shown to not be what it was perceived to be. It is extremely hard to restore consistent belief in that concept again. A true friend does not break trust.
Loyalty
Being loyal means you do not say nasty words about your friend. If others would spread rumours you do not engage in such speculation. If there is an opportunity to speak well of your friend then you do so.
Tolerance
Even though you may not like some of the choices that your friend makes. You do not allow that to obscure the friendship. Friendship has a higher value than individual choices.
Time
True friendship stands the test of time. We all have 20/20 hindsight. Looking back it is easy to see who our true friends have been and still are.
Trouble
In times of trouble you can count on a true friend to protect your back without having to be asked. They will be standing right beside you for support even if it is on the other end of a phone call.
Caring
A true friend cares whether you are happy or sad. A true friend will give you assistance to throw off the blues. Bring you chocolates, have a coffee with you or maybe some retail therapy. Go fishing, or get a massage together. Any activity that turns that frown upside down into a sunny smile.
Sometimes the rapport may be between groups of people. True friendship is displayed in the bonding of members of sports teams. United by a common goal and faith in the bonds of friendship. A team steps out on the sports arena. To face together what ever comes from the opposition. Is there anything more passionate than an avid football fan for their team.
Other relationships that are characterized by true friendship is that between a person and their pet. After all, man's best friend, it is said, is a dog. For centuries animals have provided the acknowledgement of self that we all require.
Acceptance
To accept a person for who they are. Each of us is a unique individual with personal preferences. The life choices that a friend may make may not be the same as the life choices that you would make yourself. Diversity is what makes the world an interesting place.
Willingness
A willingness to listen to all your friend has to say. There may be time when you are not interested in the topic that your friend wants to discuss at length. True friends willingly listen to all each other have to say. Agreement of opinion is not necessary but respect that the other person is entitled to their opinion.
Trust
The ability to be relied upon in all circumstances. An act of betrayal can kill trust stone dead. Once trust has been shown to not be what it was perceived to be. It is extremely hard to restore consistent belief in that concept again. A true friend does not break trust.
Loyalty
Being loyal means you do not say nasty words about your friend. If others would spread rumours you do not engage in such speculation. If there is an opportunity to speak well of your friend then you do so.
Tolerance
Even though you may not like some of the choices that your friend makes. You do not allow that to obscure the friendship. Friendship has a higher value than individual choices.
Time
True friendship stands the test of time. We all have 20/20 hindsight. Looking back it is easy to see who our true friends have been and still are.
Trouble
In times of trouble you can count on a true friend to protect your back without having to be asked. They will be standing right beside you for support even if it is on the other end of a phone call.
Caring
A true friend cares whether you are happy or sad. A true friend will give you assistance to throw off the blues. Bring you chocolates, have a coffee with you or maybe some retail therapy. Go fishing, or get a massage together. Any activity that turns that frown upside down into a sunny smile.
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