Too many women confuse sex with love and end up cursing themselves when they get dumped. Though sex is important in a relationship it cannot be considered the defining factor. There are other ways by which you can make your guy love you apart from sex. Here are some ways of doing it. However, do it sincerely and with all your heart.
Excite him all the time
You don't have to get up close and personal to titillate him. You can very well do if from a distance. The way you dress and the way you behave around him can also have the same effect on him. Wear sexy clothes and talk sexy stuff and keep his pulse racing.
Physical contact
You don't have to get naked to please your man. Just brushing against him when no one is watching or groping him longingly with a naughty look in your eye will also suffice if you do it discreetly. Another way is by initiating physical contact when in a group or when at the mall or any other public place.
Tight hugs
This is one of the best ways to make him hot for you without having sex. Whenever you meet him give him a tight hug. When at home or when alone give him a hug in which your pelvis brushes against his private parts. You just have to make him realize that you want him physically close to you.
Convey your feelings him via text
You can show your love and longing for him via text messages. Don't forward him a text you got from your girlfriend or a colleague, in stead coin something naughty yourself and send it across. This is as good as having phone sex.
PDA
Wondering what "PDA" stands for? Well, "Public Display of Affection". Remember this different from the point mentioned earlier. In this you do get physically close to him in full public glare. Do this whenever you can and he will feel loved and cherished.
Stress relieving massage
After a hard days work or after a stressful ball game give your guy a well deserved massage. You can infuse some sexual element into it by doing some naughty stuff like wearing only an apron or by talking dirty in a husky voice.
Cooking for him
You can also use your culinary skills to demonstrate your love. Cook his favorite dish and lay the table complete with candles and sparkling wine. Soft music and dim lights will further enhance the ambience. Your guy will love you for this surprise treat.
