Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Body Language to Attract Women

When you approach a woman, there are certain things that attract them, which includes: vocal tonality, body language, and facial expressions.
For this article, I'm going to give you some examples of good body language when it comes to approaching women, so you'll have a better chance of getting her number. (Because we all know the #1 way to not attract the woman is poor postures and bad body language)
Non-verbal communications that attract her...

1. Not leaning in AKA "pecking".
In pick up artist lingo, we call this "pecking". Basically when you're talking to her, you don't want to lend in really close to her face, because it would creep her out. You want to stand straight and lend back during the beginning of the conversation when you're getting to know her.
Why? Because leaning in will make you needy and desperate, and women can sense this right away.
Of course you might do this in a unconscious level, so be sure to self correct yourself.
Ever watched a movie where some clueless keeps leaning into the woman and she's feeling creeped out but the guy is clueless and keeps pecking and talking to her? Now you know...

2. Nervous posture
By this, I mean having a hunch back. Or putting your knees close together and clasping your hands. I see this all the time as a pick up instructor. You want to be relax as possible. Imagine that you're in your home and talking to this woman because you know her for a long time. Why? Because a confident man shouldn't be nervous when he's talking to a woman.

Lance Tayshaun

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